When Parents Have Different Styles of Parenting

​Child discipline is full of challenges by itself. But, if the couple has different styles of parenting, it can divide a family apart. If you and your spouse are like this, child-rearing is more likely the cause of many of your arguments.
 
Here are few tips to help keep the peace at home if you do not see eye to eye with your spouse regarding parenting styles:

​Divide and Conquer
Come to an agreement that both of you have parenting rights despite the differences in your approach. Do not try to handle every situation with the kids. For example, if you deal with picky eating and messy room better than your spouse, then it is up to you to fix the situations. If your spouse handles tantrums and sibling fights better, then leave it up to him to solve these issues.
 
Form A Sense of Unity
Even if you think the attitude of your spouse is irritating and frustrating when you argue about the right way of parenting, try to keep it between the two of you. When kids see you yelling at each other, and no one is budging, it will not solve the problem at hand. Keep calm and compromise with your spouse. It can lead to the children believing you are firm but united.
 
Choose Your Battles
Evaluate if the parenting of your spouse is worth fighting. You can step in if the parenting practices become physical or threatening. But, if the style of the other parent is not aligned with yours, then just let it go. Let them work it out because there are things you cannot control.
 
Settle on Neutral Ground
If the different parenting styles have become a power struggle for you and your spouse, you will only compound the problem. If you like to start from scratch and work on creating a more effective and solid strategy, another good approach is to take a parenting course together and let the expert teach you great tips and ideas.
 
When the Parenting Styles Are Not Blended Well at Home

• The kids may be drawn to one specific parent.
• The conflicts can lead to depression or isolation as the kids grow.
• Kids will be confused as to whose expectations to follow, mom's or dads.

 
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